If your wall is a foot and a half high, you're going to have a lot of guys playing in your yard, digging up your grass, messing up your flower bed. The real deal of it is, there's nothing you can do to beat a guy off that really wants you. We have made you think that if you don't put out in a certain amount of time, you're going to drive us off. That's the problem: Women have given up their standards and their requirements because of us. Do you think that's realistic in this day and age? Now, if you're just holding out, what are you saying to this guy? A guy has to have certain things and the woman knows it.Īt the same time, you suggest women should abstain from having sex with a new partner for 90 days. Here's the deal: If you're pregnant with our child, we understand, we're not barbaric - we got that there's a waiting period. You say that if a woman withholds sex for one month, she risks losing a partner. You say men expect three things in return for their three Ps: support, loyalty and the "cookie." "The way we men connect is by having sex. The fact that you do not like what I'm saying does not stop it from being the truth about men. And that goes for men too.Ĭan you see how this stuff might make women resent you? If you don't want your man to ever stop feeling certain things for you, you gotta always maintain. If that's not what won over the guy in the beginning, please know, he's still attracted to those things. Women get older, they have kids, they get the van, they get the route to the school, they get the little mom slacks that she drops the kids off in, the sneakers, she stops wearing the makeup. You've talked about women underestimating how much looks matter to men, that if she isn't primping, she might be in for a rough ride. If you're going to portray that you don't need a man, that's not really going to attract too many men. I think that a woman would love to have a shoulder to lean on, love to have a strong male figure around, but you've got to allow for that to happen in your life. It's great that women are upwardly mobile now. They do if you present the aura that you don't need a man. You write that the "need to feel needed is way bigger to than we've let on." You also write that a woman's financial and educational gains should "never be bigger than the relationship with the man." Do you think women's gains are wrecking relationships?
Harvey spoke with The Globe and Mail about what else women don't get about men.
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